Estrangement in Adoption: Preventing, Accepting, Healing
Presented at KAAN
June 22, 2024
9:00am - 10:15am Central Time
Westin O’Hare at 6100 North River Road, Rosemont, IL 60018
Panelists
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Astrid Castro
FOUNDER & CEO of Adoption Mosaic
Astrid Castro, founder/CEO of Adoption Mosaic. For over three decades, Astrid has served the adoption constellation through a variety of innovative programing designed to highlight the adoptee experience. Prior to creating Adoption Mosaic, Astrid worked in both the private and public sectors of various adoption organizations such the Oregon Post Adoption Resource Center (ORPARC), Holt International and Rocky Mountain Adoption Exchange, to name just a few. Astrid is aware of the benefits of post-adoption services for individuals and their families and seeks to bring these services to the adoption community. Her life-long interest in adoption is rooted in her own adoption at the age of four from Colombia (along with her older sister). Astrid has been in reunion since December 2012 with her birth family in Colombia.
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Liz Kwon
KOREAN ADOPTEE
Liz Kwon was born in Seoul, South Korea and was adopted to a family in Wisconsin. During the day she is a project manager and at night, runs KAD Collective, a data-focused website whose goal is to help Korean adoptees find connection through shared experiences, locations or stories via a bi-yearly census and ongoing database. She is also on the board at K.A.M.P., helping to develop an adult adoptee summer camp track for 2024. Liz is excited to help normalize adoptee and adoption family estrangement.
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Maureen McCauley
ADOPTIVE PARENT
Maureen’s professional background is in child welfare advocacy, as former executive director of 3 adoption-related nonprofits. She’s presented workshops on adoption (i.e., transracial, international, older children, racism) across the US and in Canada. She is currently a consultant with Adoption Mosaic, as well as a writer and editor. Maureen is co-editor, with two Ethiopian adoptees, of “Lions Roaring, Far From Home: An Anthology by Ethiopian Adoptees,” published in December 2022. Her four children, all transracially adopted, are now in their 30’s; she also has two granddaughters.
Resources
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Harlows Monkey by Dr. Jae Ran Kim
Adoptees On: Estrangement Series podcast hosted by Haley Radke
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“9 People on How They Deal With Being Estranged From a Family Member” by Sharon McDonnell
“Adoption Status and Family Relationships During the Transition to Young Adulthood” (Academic report)
“A Shift in American Values is Fueling Estrangement” by Joshua Coleman
Dear Adoptive Parents: The Burden of Adoptee Loyalty By Mila Konomos
Estrangement: The Silent Epidemic (Psychology Today)
Finding the Right Therapy as an Adoptee by Lynelle Long, ICAV
“Here’s Why Adoptees Seem Angry—And What We Talk About When We Talk About Loss” by Sunny Reed
“Hidden Voices: Family Estrangement in Adulthood”
“I Love My Adoptive Family But Not Adoption” by Angela Barra
“Living in Adoption’s Emotional Aftermath” By Larissa MacFarquhar
“One quarter of adult children estranged from a parent” by Daniel de Visé
“Parent-Adult Child Estrangement in the United States by Gender, Race/ethnicity, and Sexuality” (Academic report)
“Statistics That Tell the Story of Family Estrangement” (Psychology Today)
“The alienation of adoption” World of Work Report (British)
“The Words Every Adult Child Needs to Hear” (Psychology Today)
“What is Family Estrangement?” by Susan Adcox
"What is family estrangement? A relationship expert describes the problem and research agenda" by Kristina Scharp
“What is it about grief, loss and adult adoptees?” by Jennifer Griesbach, MSW
“What’s Ripping American Families Apart?” by David Brooks
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Invisible Boy by Harrison Mooney
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Return to Seoul (2022)
aka SEOUL: A Korean Adoptee Story (2016, 7 part series on YouTube)
‘We’re Asians, Gay & Proud’: The story behind the photo (2018)
Meet the Robinsons (2007)
Canción sin nombre (2019)
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